Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Memory Lane...The Best Kisses

Do you remember the best kiss you have ever had? Lord, I have had 2 guys who were the best, but for the most part most of the guys I have dated can kiss. Umh, memories.

My first kiss was with this guy we use to call Chicago. He was cute in an off center kinda way, but the boy had an overbite, so my first kiss was juicy. His kiss didn’t melt my heart, but it let me know at 13 years old, I like to kiss.

There was this guy in Florida who I loved to death. I mean I just was head over heels in love with him. Now mind you he had an ET shape head, for real. His name *Eddie Jackson. I loved me some Eddie. I dreamed about him, I doodled his name all over my notebooks and everyone at my school new I loved me some EJ. In fact they made sure before I left Florida I got to kiss him. Man, my friends were the best. After school on my last day, it was worked out where we would meet and do the do. Kiss. So we get to the bathroom (men’s?) and as nervous as all out we kissed and ya’ll I can still feel the way his jaws worked because he had a strong jaw line. Eddie could kiss and I relived that moment until I talked my uncle into allowing me to return to Florida to finish out my last two months. Of course, instead of Eddie and me getting together he thought I tricked him. Whatever. Shoot, Jacksonville was my home and I wasn’t ready to leave yet. So until I left again for Alabama and for good (I did have his phone number) I dreamed about that bathroom kiss with all the track team outside listening to us. Like we was moaning or something. Get out of here. Memories.

Now when I got to Alabama kissing was my thing. I knew I could put it down when it came to kissing, I perfected my kiss and I knew it was the ish. However, I found that the boyfriends I had in high school (except one, I’ll get to him later), could not kiss. I mean if you know that was all you were going to get from me, wouldn’t you set out to make it worth my while in hopes I would give up the draws? They kissed okay, but they had nothing on EJ. Until Charlie, yeah that is his real name.

Charlie and I were best friends. We met in the 10th grade, but our friendship was cultivated during our junior year. Now, I just wanted us to be friends, but he really wanted more. I mean this guy wrote me a love note on a pencil (I still have it too.) However, that junior year during Christmas he showed up at my house with a gift. Aah, and when I went to hug him, he just up and kissed me. Ohmygosh! I was shocked and pleasantly surprised. That boy could kiss. I almost forgot I was feening for MT. Oh well, I put off taking our friendship to another level for many reasons, but mostly because I didn’t want to lose my friend. We did try to be a couple for 3 days during our senior year, but I just couldn’t do it. With the thought of that kiss still branded in my mind, I tried but I was still trying to get with MT. A waste. MT kissed okay, but he didn’t have the lips for it. Sorry MT. However, after high school me and Charlie dated off and on until a year before he got married (don’t ask). I mean one night we kissed for like 2 hours straight. It was that good, we didn’t need to breathe. Shoot. Let me just say he was one of my best kissers.

Older doesn’t mean a person will be a good kisser. I dated this guy for a year and a half, but if it wasn’t for…never mind cause he wasn’t bad but he wasn’t great either. At his age, compared to my age, he should have had the flavor and technique that I had. Then there was this guy, who had plump lips which made great pillow kisses, but being reminded of his lust for Caucasian love was a turn off, but he could kiss.

I have kissed a host of guys, even though I can count the guys who made it past first base. Now my other best kisser was smooth. We were having this conversation and he got me in debating mode and while I am arguing my point, this man just kissed my loudness away. I was so taken aback I was sitting there like OHMYGOSH! I was unprepared, but you know when you know you can kiss you ain’t gonna hold nothing back so I gave as good as I took and threw him for a loop. Don’t underestimate a real kisser; we don’t bow down to a challenge. We still talk about that kiss. He is a sensual kisser whose movements with his mouth and tongue are used to meld you both together in an ancient dance of seduction. His mouth offers naughty secrets and gentle thrusts of what is to come. Firmness with each stroke of his tongue and the caress of his hands initiate more, but his heat ignites a fire that even his kiss can make you explode. Until you have been kissed to the point surrealism and carnal melding – you haven’t been kissed senseless. …I’ll be back…

Anyway as you can tell kissing is my thing and I thank one of my fellow bloggers for the trip down memory lane.

P. S. I was looking through old drafts on my computer and found this little diddy. I liked the way it was written and decided to blog it. I probably should have put it on my anonymous blog, but heck it is good story.

*Name changed to protect the innocent.

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Thursday, September 23, 2010

Nancy's Italian Ice...

After a recent book club meeting, since I was on that side of town and I had recently read a review of the place, I decided to check it out and try some of their gelato.  Mind you I have only had gelato a few times, but I always remembered how flavorful and rich just a small portion would be.  So I hightailed it took my time leaving the meeting.  And less than 10 minutes later I was standing at the counter of Nancy's Italian Ice.  I had a hard decision to make.  Not really, being sarcastic they only had one flavor for the day.  Peppermint.  I wasn't too sure about that.  Lucky for me, the lovely and courteous counter helper offered to let me taste it with the chocolate chips.  I was a bit hesitant, but I said, "Sure."  OMG!  That was the best sh gelato I have ever tasted!

It was creamy, refreshing and rich.  In the words of Rachael Ray, Yum-o!  I was like give me a large one.  Now mind you a large ain't that much, but the right amount to just savor and fall in love with if bountiful flavor.  Later that night after it was all gone, all I could think about was when I would be on that side of town again and when they would have Peppermint on the menu again. 

My birthday came and I decided to treat myself.  I crossed my fingers in hopes Peppermint with chocolate chips was on the flavors that day.  Guess what?  It was.  Yeah, for me.  And it was just as good as before.  Loves it!

If you are in the area, please check it out.  I understand their Italian Ice is great as well. 

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Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Randoms on my heart...

  • Um, this T.ea Par.ty group is making waves and it is scary.
  • President Obama can't do anything right for folks.  Now he is exploiting his daughters with his book?  Bull!  I wish my Father would have thought enough of me to write a book for me and about me.
  • Reg.gie Bush is sleazy because he gave back the Heisman instead of them taking it back?  Really, people?  Decide which side you are on.
  • Football is back.  Sigh...
  • MT.V Awards = boring.  Why?  Why do they have an awards show when they don't show videos?
  • when you are 4ft tall being orange ain't cute. 
  • I loved Kanye's red suit, my sister didn't.  She doesn't like him at all, but she had to raise her hands for the scumbags, jerk offs etc. LOL!
  • I love me some Chelsea Handler, but her hosting on the Awards was a disappointment.  I need to campaign for Chris Rock to come back.  Well, I really rather compaign they just stop the awards altogether.
  • I like Lady G.aga, but she is eventually going to run out of shock value outfits.  I didn't know until, okay yesterday, the dress she had on when she won Video of the Year was actually made out of raw meat.  Ugh!  All I can think about is the smell and flies...Let me stop there.  What's next? 
  • At least the BET aka EBT Awards entertain me.  Well they make me laugh.
  • One thing I did notice was even though both networks are owned by the same company, M.TV has the bigger budget.  Just something I notice.
  • The issue with the football team and the female reporter, makes me sigh some more.  Women deserve as much respect as their male counterparts in whatever industry one works in, but...I feel some kinda way about the dress of the female sports reporter.  I don't know, when one dresses professionally normally one is treated professionally.  I can't take someone seriously who has all their assests out.  But that is just me.  At least it has us talking.
  • El Debarge's song Second Chance is just beautiful.
  • Now if more of the music was as good.
  • Have a great day!

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Tuesday, September 14, 2010

This is how I feel right now...

I wish I could talk about it, but I can't right now.  I'm at my 2nd job and I have cried all night.  Just so sad.  Just pray for my family and I.

Friday, September 10, 2010

Today's my 41st Birthday!  I woke up feeling great and blessed!  I'll be to post about hair and other stuff!  Have great Weekend!

Picture of my happiness for today:


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